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May be we are SELFISH!!!

How was your last breakup? 

Maybe you cried for about 3-4 days, were upset for few weeks, and finally, you were emotionally broken and decided never to trust anyone again. Right?

Imagine how tough it would be for a girl who was physically abused!!!
It was just an emotional attachment that turned you this much, it took you so long to recover, and that too not completely...
What about her? Maybe she had relations with 100s, but it was with her approval.
When someone refused to stay emotionally attached to you, you were broken for months.
So how long does she require to recover from being physically abused???

I really don't understand why this happens, like what do we need? 
Sex? Go for a prostitute you will have it, why to kill someone from inside? 
Revenge with that particular girl? Take your revenge but at least maintain the level of your revenge, why to take someone's dignity in revenge?
Revenge from someone else? How would it be if I slapped your younger brother to take revenge on you? Not fare. Right? So why would you do if you cannot accept the same?

But still this happens, Right?? Maybe the biggest problem is of dominance, what we want is the control over other's lives, the ego issue. Like "Usne meri bat nhi suni, ruk batata hu use", "Bhai ke phul ko phek dia, itni himmat uski", "Is uncle/aunty ne meko aisa bola, ruk use aukad dikhata hu", and this leads to something that they first abuse to satisfy their ego, and realising that she, being alive is a threat to me, so just kill her and through her somewhere. And then our law says "bhale 100 gunehdar chut jai but ek begunhe ko saza nahi milni chia." Which is very right but this leads to the growth of evil as that guilty sets free and repeats the crime.

I really feel down when I see people being selfish like we are taught since childhood that "This is a selfish world", "is dunia me koi kisi ka nhi hota", "aache waqt me to sab sath rathe hai, bure waqt me koi nah ratha."

It is well said that-

When someone is introduced to crime, he/ she criticizes it.
When kept in touch, he/ she accepts it.
When not removed and guided on the right track, he/ she starts practising it.

So what is required is to check at the initial stage, all will be fixed.

I was watching "MOM" Movie and just wanted to write something.

Do comment and share your opinion.
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