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Tu khud ki khoj me nikal

You know where it starts? With us.

Either we are the culprit or we are the ignorant.



I find friends talking about Hollywood movies, why not movies like Pink.

How much we are willing to stand by someone we don't even know? Aajnabi se dur raho, right?

how many of us treat the girl with respect whom we had a break-up with? She is not of a good character, right ? Its an Opportunity for us if we find a girl who just had a break-up. No one cares what she thinks. if she comes with you she is a SLU_ and if she doesn't, we comment on her, Obviously nothing good.

It's nicely described in the movie the rule book that we boys follow. Ever wondered how it feels to be called with some special adjectives.

A family is the greatest gift anyone can have. how would it feel to lose the confidence of a family bcoz of some mistakes done unintentionally? We have friends at their bad times and we say "yarr  dur raho uusce, uusne aaisa kia, wo aaisa/aaisi hai".

You know we are great judges, maybe the court takes months to decide. we can decide at an eye-sight. It's fun, right? to comment on someone just after a single look. We are closed to every new knowledge that appears to our doorstep but we are willing to spend lakhs for the same when its properly advertised.

Do we respect senior citizens? how many times do we offer our seat to someone in need of same? Try it sometime, the smile on the person's face will make your day. Try being Selfless sometimes, you will see a new world. Lots of respect will be waiting for you. There are uncountable problems, just try to solve one, one cannot solve all of them. Hope for the best for everyone

Do watch The Film #Pink if u haven't. Thank you, Amitabh Bachchan, For this movie and #KBC where contestants and guests not only have knowledge but also carry an inspiring story with them.

Smile with someone else's smile. See the world in different shoes.

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