Adarsha Shah's Blog

Have you ever been to a marriage where you are the only family member? It has been more than a year that I attended a marriage where I was the only family member available for the whole night, and the full family is consist of more than 50 people. I WAS THERE BECAUSE I BELIEVE EVERY ONE HAS THE RIGHT TO CHOOSE THEIR LIFE PARTNER, GOOD OR BAD, WHATEVER. WHO AM I TO JUDGE SOMEONE? Ho sakta hai ki mujhe kisi insan se parasani ho par iska ye matlab nahi ki mai apne vichar puri duniye pe thop de. Us waqt mere akele hone ki em matr wajha ye thi ki kisi ne baki sabhi par apne vichar thop diye the, aaj v thopa hua hai aur log duvidha me kaha ki kya kare, kaha jai? Par sachai to yahi hai ki aap apne vichar ek bar to kisi pe thop sakte hai par bar bar bhut dino tak to nahi. Apne vichar apne tak rakhiye, dusro ko apne vichar jahir karne dijiye. I really don't understand why do we have this culture to choose the life partner for others? where do we find this culture? I have heard of

You know where it starts? With us. Either we are the culprit or we are the ignorant. I find friends talking about Hollywood movies, why not movies like Pink. How much we are willing to stand by someone we don't even know? Aajnabi se dur raho, right? how many of us treat the girl with respect whom we had a break-up with? She is not of a good character, right ? Its an Opportunity for us if we find a girl who just had a break-up. No one cares what she thinks. if she comes with you she is a SLU_ and if she doesn't, we comment on her, Obviously nothing good. It's nicely described in the movie the rule book that we boys follow. Ever wondered how it feels to be called with some special adjectives. A family is the greatest gift anyone can have. how would it feel to lose the confidence of a family bcoz of some mistakes done unintentionally? We have friends at their bad times and we say "yarr  dur raho uusce, uusne aaisa kia, wo aaisa/aaisi hai&quo